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I've been with this boy for 1 year and 6 months. He broke up with me 4 months ago, I still love him and seeing him with another girl, just breaks my heart into pieces. I loss appetite, I rarely smile. I'm just broken. Last month, I thought I've moved on. But here I am today, crying myself out. I just want this to be over. Can you help me :( I wanna be the happy girl that I was before. Pls.
I know how you feel. You won’t be over him in a month. I know you want to be, but you won’t. It will take time. So accept that. There’s nothing wrong with that. He’s moved on, you haven’t. So what? You’re still amazing you don’t need him. He’s a thing of the past now. I know that you would give everything to be happy again, but you’ll never be happy until you fix yourself. Get up and brush off the dust. What happened with him happened, you learned a lesson, and now it’s time to move on with your life. You had some great times. Try to focus on the good things that came because of the break up. You’re stronger now. And you don’t need him. You never will. So remember that. You lived without him before and you’ll do it again. Good luck!
I found out my ex cheated on me and he asked his best friend to homecoming. when I found out I couldn't help but feel a little crushed.. I know I shouldn't care and I should be over him but idk.. it's just going to suck going to homecoming and seeing him there with someone else even though it's his best friend..
I know it will be hard. But you’re strong, and you will make it through. Regardless of what you think. Just ignore him. That’s the only thing that I can say. That’s the best way to handle it. Just try to avoid them. Don’t cause yourself any heart break. Good luck!
what should i do. me an my ex were dating for almost 6 months i know that isnt that long but we knew each other for 3 years.he said he loved me an wanted a future with me but the problem was distance we saw each other once a month but he dumped me an two days later he dated his friend an said he loved her a stuff. she was controlling him an when i saw him last he said he still loves me now after they broke up he said wants to be friends an he is in love with me an scewed up what should i do.
I don’t know, really. It sounds like you want to be with him, so do it! Just know what you’re getting yourself into. That’s all that I can tell you. Good luck!
So I broke up with my bf of over 1.5 years and it was pretty mutual. I'm over him and we're friendly but we see each other 3-5 times a week as we're in the same marching band. A girl in band is already flirting/soon to be sleeping with him. I don't want him back but I also don't want to see that every day and have it ruin my time with an amazing group of people. Have any coping tips when it's kinda in-my-face (ie drunk parties)?
I would just say that she can have him. He’s not yours. And you’ve already had him. So who cares? You’re not the one that will get hurt. You’re too good for that. Just keep your head high. Don’t be a bitch, but don’t be jealous either. Just ignore them the best you can. Don’t look they’re way, but don’t avoid him or go out of your way to look at him. He’s invisible. That’s all I can say. Good luck!
Recently my ex boyfriend (who I was dating at the time) told me he cheated on me for a one night stand. He told me two days after he did it and I couldn't twist my head around the fact he would do something like that to me. He tells me he still loves me, would make things better if I took him back, etc. I don't know, part of him hates him, but part of me still loves him. I feel like if I let him go I'd be unhappy, but I don't want to look like a fool either.
You will be unhappy. But you’re hurt he cheated, and you shouldn’t just rush back so that no one else can have him. You need to do what’s best for you, and that’s obviously not him. He’s a waste of time. If someone crushes you like that, don’t go running back. That’s the worst thing you can do. Take time. Make them see that you aren’t going to take it. If you go back, it could happen again, and I know you don’t want that. So keep that in mind. Trust is one of the hardest things to have after someone betrays you. Good luck! You’re strong. :)
My ex had a new girlfriend... I discovers by loggin his Facebook account.. The problem is they already been four month ago.. And i saw he sugared words with his new gf.. Yet he still said he care me or whatever.. When I found out the truth and askin him.. he was deny.. He even clear all private massage with his girlfriend.. I can't believe !! What he was thought !? Why he deny?? And why he clear up.. Please.. Give me some advice ... Thankyou so muchhhh...
I think that he’s confused. And that’s ok. He can be confused with her, not you. If he acts like that, you’re better without him. Stop trying to invade his life, walk away from it. Severe contact. Let him love his life, and you live yours. It’s a waste of time to try to make someone want and love you. So don’t. Walk away. You guys had some good times, but they’re over now. So accept that, and look forward to the future. Good luck!
I broke up with my boyfriend two days ago, when i mentioned it, he seemed like he didnt care and told me to move on. yesterday he apoligized and we got bak together but i regret it this morning so my friend told him i got hacked and it was someone else that got bak together with them. because i liked two guys as well and wanted to date one other one because he suited me more but i dont even know who i like most. now he keeps apoligizing and he seems like hes dying. what should i do??? omg
I think you should follow your heart. Don’t sty with him out of pity, stay with him because you want to be with him. If you like someone else, pursue that person and just let your ex go. Don’t lead someone on, and don’t waste your time in a relationship that’s not going anywhere. Good luck!
I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and i cant stop crying over it. the problem is during our relationship i liked 2 other guys and i still do and because i didn't want to hurt my current boyfriend's feelings; i broke up with him. Can you please give me advice on how to deal with the other two? I really don't want to have a crush on 2 people at once. i am going mad.
Well you’re going to have to decide what to do. Stop talking to one, or decide who you like more. There’s one that you like more than the other, and somewhere you know that. So decide, and tell them. That’s really all that I can tell you. Good luck!
So he (my boyfriend/ ex whatever I should call him now)broke up with me like a month ago but I don't know the reason why. he just said he doesn't see a future for us. I still love him and I want everything to work out. What should I do I just love him so much and I don't know how to handle the whole situation.
You can’t make someone love you, and it’s a waste of time to try. If he left with out an explanation, that really takes a toll on you. I know how hard that is. But you just have to accept it,and move on. Try not to dwell on the past. I know that you still love him, but it’s called a break up cause its broken. Try to see the good in this. You’re stronger now. And you’ll continue to get stronger. You lived without him before, you’ll do it again. Good luck!
I broke up with my boyfriend 4 days ago, because half the time we were together he just kept flirting with other girls. I talked to him after the 2ndish month but he denied it all. Anyway that wasn't the really reason why i broke up with him; it's just that he was also cheating on me =< now 4 days from the break up and all i have been doing is crying. i really love him so how am i meant to get over him if i have to see him everyday? (school)
You’ll get over him because you don’t have a choice. He broke your heart, so screw him. You don’t need him anyways. It’s a waste of time to try to make someone love you, and it’s a waste of time to be with someone who cheats on you. You’re better than him, so let him screw up his life. You don’t need him. You lived without him before and you’ll do it again. I know it’s hard, but this is for the best. Time heals all wounds. Good luck! This is just making you stronger.
So my boyfriend just recently broke up with me, he didn't really say thy we were over buy he just said 'I liked it better when we were friends' but he's liked me for three years and to just forget about everything that we've been through these last three months seems hard, but I also suspect it's my 'friends' fault we broke up cuz she never let us be alone, and I'm so confused and I just don't know what I should do or how I should feel? I just miss him so much
I think it’s good that he told you how he felt. Maybe one day you guys can try again. You can’t make someone love you, and it’s a waste of time to try. If he doesn’t want to be together, then don’t be. I know that you miss him, but it will get better. I promise you that. It’s better that you know now rather than later. Good luck!
okay so this isn't a break up but it kinda is. so me and my friend we have been good friends for a couple of years we started to like each other this summer. neither of us really told each other we both just kinda knew. all of a sudden last week he just stop texting me, but he plays football so it might just be he's kind of busy. what do you think? should I be worried?
I think you can always find time to text someone. It takes 20 seconds. Maybe there’s something going on, maybe he’s found someone else. Try to figure it out, because people don’t just suddenly stop talking to you unless there’s something else going on. Good luck!