I feel like you should dump her. That’s a shitty thing to do. The next time you get a boyfriend she’ll just swoop in and steal him.
This time of year is going to be so hard. All the memories will come flooding back. Anyone with me on this one?
If you didn’t want to be in a relationship yesterday, why do you want to be in one today? I understand that you want to go back. It’s comfortable. They know everything about you, no awkwardness. But if you made a decision to end it, then stick with it. If that’s what you wanted yesterday, it should still be the same today. Be firm. When you say something, mean it. And realise that one day, you’ll find someone else. You should never be with someone who you don’t feel comfortable with, or someone who tries to force you to do things. I think that from the sounds of it, you’re better off just being apart. Just figure out what you really want. But when you decide, stick to it. Make a list of the pros and cons, and what you have learned from the year and 3 months. Develop a specific plan. If you go back, tell him all the things you want to change, or don’t feel comfortable with. Don’t just settle. Figure out what will make you the happiest in the long run!