Break it off. You’re wasting both his and your time. If you didn’t want to be with him and broke it off, stick to that. It’s what you wanted at one time, so don’t go back on that. Of course you miss him, we all miss our exes. But you will never live without him unless you try. I promise you that. This relationship has run it’s course, so there’s your answer. If you don’t want to be with him, then move on. Never look back. Be with him for the right reason, not so that someone else can’t have him. Good luck!
What can you do? It’s his life, not yours. It doesn’t sound like he treats you fairly anyways. You shouldn’t have to cater to someone else all the time. It should be 50/50. I know that it’s hard that he’s with someone else, but that means you can finally move on, which is awesome! He’s in the past now. He never treated you right, and that makes him look bad. Get up, brush off the dust, and don’t look back. It might seem like the end of the world, but it’s not. Screw him and everything about him. You don’t need him. Good luck!
I think you did the right thing. The only way to move on is to cut off contact, so it’s good to take that step. You can’t make someone love you, and it’s a waste of time to try. No matter how hard it gets, you just have to keep your head up. You lived without him before, you’ll do it again. Good luck!
It sounds like he’s hurt and is trying to figure out what’s going on. And that’s totally fine. It sounds like you guys could work on it, so that’s good. I think that it’s good to have some time apart right now. I think he just needs time. So give him time, and as much as he needs. But don’t plan your life around him coming back to you. Do your own thing, have fun. If its meant to be it will be. Good luck!
Well, you can’t take those thoughts out of his head. You might not even have a question. If he doesn’t want to be with you, there’s nothing you can do about that. Like I have said a million times, you can’t make someone love you, and it’s a waste of time to try. I know that you still like him, but you have to understand that he’s hurt. So don’t be mad at him for that. If he did that to you would you be upset? I would say to just give him space. But don’t spend time holding on to the hope you’ll get back together. That’s a waste of time. If it happens, it happens. Don’t plan your life around that, especially if you think he hates you. I would say to just try to keep your mind off of it. Don’t talk to him. And if you do, understand he might say harsh things because he’s hurt. Good luck!
Stop talking to him. It’s the only way to ever get over him. He’s with someone else. That’s hard, but it’s crappy of him to still talk to you. You’ll never move on if he’s still in your life. It’s impossible. If you still like him and he doesn’t feel the same, you’re only hurting yourself. Everything you take that call, you’re undoing all the work you just did. Stop talking to him. It’s only going to hurt you in the end. He’s moved on, so you have to too. He shouldn’t be talking to you if he has a new girlfriend anyways. Good luck!
Of course it is! You shared something special with him, and that’s nothing to be ashamed of. Nothing will ever replace him. And maybe you don’t even want a new “him”. Sometimes we just miss people that were in our life. There’s nothing wrong with that.
Do what makes you happy. Your happiness is all that matters. It doesn’t matter how he feels, or anyone else. Put yourself first. It isn’t fair at all to judge you for that. Especially where you live together, it’s going to be really hard. Just remember that you have a say in this, and your happiness. If you don’t love him, don’t stay. You might not be able to get out immediately, but soon. Just keep your head up. This isn’t forever. Good luck! :)
You can’t change his mind on that. 5 years is a long time together, and to suddenly be apart would take a toll on any relationship. You need to understand that. Stop making the first effort if you’re sick of it. We have choices in everything that we do. If you feel like you aren’t being treated like a priority, walk away. There’s nothing holding you back. And If you can’t walk away, then take a step back for awhile. Be on your own. A relationship involves two people, not just one. Remember that.
You won’t. It is almost impossible to move on without cutting him off. Because somewhere deep down, you might not even realise it, you want to get back together with him. And I know that’s hard to hear, but it’s true. I would just tell him you need some time. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. If he thinks there is, that’s on him. Not you. You can’t be expected to be miserable just so he’s happy. I know it sucks. I know it’s hard. But screw him. He doesn’t want to be together, so don’t b anything at all. It’s the only way to move on.
I would tell you to cut off contact. It’s going to only hurt you in the end. You don’t need him in your life, do you? He’s with someone else now, and you should try to move on. Yes he’s beautiful and amazing, but not worth your time. He can’t have his cake and eat it too. If you’re friends, you will never move on. You need to cut off contact so you can’t see what he’s up to. It’s the only way.
If you’re his “friend” he might try to use you as a rebound when they’re fighting. Being friends with an ex never works out. Trust me.