Breakup quotes for girls (:

okay so this is the situation i break up with mg ex, and i thought thats the WORST decision I've ever made. ang now im regretting it because i miss him so much!! like he's always on my mind! and i hate to say this but I still love him so much! we didnt talk for a months until i aproach him and now we started again to talk but it feels like he doesnt love me anymore and dont have a plan to be with me again. WHAT SHOULD I DO? im really tierd of this feeling i wanna move on please help!!!

Break it off. You’re wasting both his and your time. If you didn’t want to be with him and broke it off, stick to that. It’s what you wanted at one time, so don’t go back on that. Of course you miss him, we all miss our exes. But you will never live without him unless you try. I promise you that. This relationship has run it’s course, so there’s your answer. If you don’t want to be with him, then move on. Never look back. Be with him for the right reason, not so that someone else can’t have him. Good luck!

My boyfriend and I were dating for around eight months. It's been on and off because he always wanted a break. I tolerate him when he was attacking my personality and basically shut me down from his life b/c i love him. He acts like he has no faults at all, it was all mine. Later on, he told me to wait for him after camp which I did. In the end, he came back telling me not to and broke up with again. Two weeks later, he is in a relationship with someone that I know. What can I do now? It hurts..

What can you do? It’s his life, not yours. It doesn’t sound like he treats you fairly anyways. You shouldn’t have to cater to someone else all the time. It should be 50/50. I know that it’s hard that he’s with someone else, but that means you can finally move on, which is awesome! He’s in the past now. He never treated you right, and that makes him look bad. Get up, brush off the dust, and don’t look back. It might seem like the end of the world, but it’s not. Screw him and everything about him. You don’t need him. Good luck!

I know my bf for more than a year and I'd bee n his gf for 9 months. He texted me yesterday saying "I'm really sorry but we need to break off. Distance is the big problems. I can't stand missing you so much and I'm hating it, we can still be friends" I accept the break up but not the "friends" thing. But he blocked me on fb and I wonder why. I was so hurt as well. We met online though. But I agreed with him. Distance sucks sometimes. I removed him on skype though. Can you give me any advice?

I think you did the right thing. The only way to move on is to cut off contact, so it’s good to take that step. You can’t make someone love you, and it’s a waste of time to try. No matter how hard it gets, you just have to keep your head up. You lived without him before, you’ll do it again. Good luck!

My ex and I broke up a week and a half ago because of stress of college starting up again. After he broke up with me he kissed me and now he won't talk to me but will tell his friends to tell me things from him. He hasn't offered to give me back my stuff and when my roommate asked if he was ever going to talk to me he said eventually but he doesn't want to talk right now because he doesn't want anything to happen because of it. Does it seem like he could want to work on our relationship together

It sounds like he’s hurt and is trying to figure out what’s going on. And that’s totally fine. It sounds like you guys could work on it, so that’s good. I think that it’s good to have some time apart right now. I think he just needs time. So give him time, and as much as he needs. But don’t plan your life around him coming back to you. Do your own thing, have fun. If its meant to be it will be. Good luck!

This will be the most confusing story ever but my ex and I we went out for a year we had lots of break ups but we still managed to keep those wonderful feelings during summer I did something really bad I played him I didn't mean to now he hates me and I still really like him not like but love he hates me I don't know what to do I try to move on but I just can't and I don't want to should I hope we may still still have a chance? I saw him last week I was nervous and he was too idk it felt good to

Well, you can’t take those thoughts out of his head. You might not even have a question. If he doesn’t want to be with you, there’s nothing you can do about that. Like I have said a million times, you can’t make someone love you, and it’s a waste of time to try. I know that you still like him, but you have to understand that he’s hurt. So don’t be mad at him for that. If he did that to you would you be upset? I would say to just give him space. But don’t spend time holding on to the hope you’ll get back together. That’s a waste of time. If it happens, it happens. Don’t plan your life around that, especially if you think he hates you. I would say to just try to keep your mind off of it. Don’t talk to him. And if you do, understand he might say harsh things because he’s hurt. Good luck!

Hi. Im just wondering what should i do. Its been 5 months since me and my ex broke up and now he has a new girlfriend but he still call me.. im really bothered because he said he doesnt care about me but he just miss talking to me.. je calls every two hours the other dah and left me with 4 calls. Im so confuse.. does he still like me.. why is he like that.. i dont wanna talk to him because i still like him and it hurts when i think of him. I still cant forget the pain.

Stop talking to him. It’s the only way to ever get over him. He’s with someone else. That’s hard, but it’s crappy of him to still talk to you. You’ll never move on if he’s still in your life. It’s impossible. If you still like him and he doesn’t feel the same, you’re only hurting yourself. Everything you take that call, you’re undoing all the work you just did. Stop talking to him. It’s only going to hurt you in the end. He’s moved on, so you have to too. He shouldn’t be talking to you if he has a new girlfriend anyways. Good luck!

Is it okay for him to still cross your mind every day. Even if you've both moved on?

Of course it is! You shared something special with him, and that’s nothing to be ashamed of. Nothing will ever replace him. And maybe you don’t even want a new “him”. Sometimes we just miss people that were in our life. There’s nothing wrong with that.

I've been with my bf for more than two years now and we have always gone through rough spots. I moved in with him and things went downhill. I feel as if I lost the feelings I once had for him. I have talked to him and he told me he would change and be a better person and pay more attention to me but he hasn't. I am tired of fighting for something that isn't worth fighting for anymore. It's a losing battle. But if I break up with him I'm the heartless one, that everyone hates. What should I do?

Do what makes you happy. Your happiness is all that matters. It doesn’t matter how he feels, or anyone else. Put yourself first. It isn’t fair at all to judge you for that. Especially where you live together, it’s going to be really hard. Just remember that you have a say in this, and your happiness. If you don’t love him, don’t stay. You might not be able to get out immediately, but soon. Just keep your head up. This isn’t forever. Good luck! :)

My ex-bf and I had been going out for nearly 5 years.. he lived with me and my family, and the moved out to go flatting about a month ago. At first we thought it would help our relationship, give each other a chance to miss the other. But it didn't work, infact it went the opposite way. He simply 'forgets' to text me back, and when he says he'll text me he never does. So im the one that will make the effort first. it seems like he doesnt care anymore. He said he can;t make me happy...

You can’t change his mind on that. 5 years is a long time together, and to suddenly be apart would take a toll on any relationship. You need to understand that. Stop making the first effort if you’re sick of it. We have choices in everything that we do. If you feel like you aren’t being treated like a priority, walk away. There’s nothing holding you back. And If you can’t walk away, then take a step back for awhile. Be on your own. A relationship involves two people, not just one. Remember that.
Good luck!

My boyfriend of six months broke up with me last night and today was the first day of grade 12. We have two classes together and we haven't talked since last night. He completely ignored me but afterschool he texted me saying I'm still his best friend and he thinks we would be better as friends instead. I said that would be fine but then he told me he's switching out of both my classes for "personal reasons" but I can't help thinking it's because of me. How do I move on without cutting him off?

You won’t. It is almost impossible to move on without cutting him off. Because somewhere deep down, you might not even realise it, you want to get back together with him. And I know that’s hard to hear, but it’s true. I would just tell him you need some time. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. If he thinks there is, that’s on him. Not you. You can’t be expected to be miserable just so he’s happy. I know it sucks. I know it’s hard. But screw him. He doesn’t want to be together, so don’t b anything at all. It’s the only way to move on.
Good luck!

Me and my bf were together 2 years. Over summer we broke up and he dated a ton of girls while he was away on vacation. Now he's back for the school year. And he met up with me. And hugged me and acted all lovey but told me he wants to only be friends and that he has a girlfriend... He does want to be friends. But idk what to do. I hate and love him. Help..

I would tell you to cut off contact. It’s going to only hurt you in the end. You don’t need him in your life, do you? He’s with someone else now, and you should try to move on. Yes he’s beautiful and amazing, but not worth your time. He can’t have his cake and eat it too. If you’re friends, you will never move on. You need to cut off contact so you can’t see what he’s up to. It’s the only way.
If you’re his “friend” he might try to use you as a rebound when they’re fighting. Being friends with an ex never works out. Trust me.
Good luck!